So I had a revelation about a few weeks ago..it pertains almost exactly to this post.I'm a confident 7, well-spoken girl but have always wondered why I'm having such issues with attracting the right type of guys when I have such a well-rounded personality.
She will get to the point where she must make a decision whether she would be able to deal with never being first in the man’s life, and the thought of it never progressing.* * * *A relationship will never flourish if built from the ground up on sneaking around, mistrust, and false hope.Sure there are a few people who actually leave their wives when they have met their “soul mate”. Although he gets to the point where he is saying he loves the side chick, he is usually more in love with his kids.In a loveless marriage with small children, the kids become more of a silver lining and the focus of all the reasons to deal with the unhappiness of no sex and conversation that only revolves around household duties (“did you pay the light bill?The cycle of the love affair with a married man almost always ends in broken hearts, hurt, and wasted time.
Sure you have those once in a million times where the man actually leaves his wife for another, but for the most part, it is a script for adultery disaster.
The other woman can’t call him or see him when she wants to.